Frequently Asked Questions

Chicago Cleveland Strap-on Escort

Take some time and check out this FAQ. It will help you plan seeing me, Chicago Cleveland kinky strap-on escort and fetishist, Erin Black.

I’ve been a professional for over 6 years, and when I first started, I started as a pro-domme. I found myself limited by protocol and the expectations of those seeking my services, so I decided to toss the label aside. 

I’m a hedonist at heart, and I truly love what I do. An experience with me is filled with fun, laughter, and pleasure, not titles and slave protocol. In fact, I really prefer you don’t call me “mistress,” “goddess,” or the like. Please, call me Erin.

A fetishist, strictly speaking, is someone who requires something decidedly non-sexual to become aroused. Fetishes that revolve around body parts (feet, legs, etc), materials (leather, latex), clothing (stockings, yoga pants etc), activities (pegging, bondage), shoes, lipstick, and basically anything you can imagine exist. Fetishes are also completely normal and make life a whole lot more interesting. For me, my fetishes revolve heavily around giving anal pleasure. I get really excited seeing the pleasure people experience from these particular activities. I love it so much, I decided to develop this site.

I’m a companion who’s focus is in one particular area— you should come find out why. 

So glad you asked! 

Each experience comes with it’s own set of rules, so please take that into consideration when making your selection.

Parameters are as follows:

Prostate Pleasure– this varies, but is ultimately sensual domination with prostate/anal play being a focus. Other elements that I love to include are light bondage, queening, body worship, and tease/denial. 

Sensual Strap-On– this experience is very much a “kinky girlfriend” experience, with you being my bend-over boyfriend. 

Anal Trainee– if you’ve ever played with a professional domme, this experience will feel familiar. Depending on our mutual interests and your experience level, I’ll be dressed in either latex or lingerie. I’ll be focused on you with my hands mainly, a majority of my efforts placed in getting you to relax and open up. 

Rates are discussed after you’ve been screened and verified. 

I delisted from TER in January of 2018, and have a no-review policy. If you’re interested in reading some of my reviews, I’m happy to send you one or two applicable screen shots.

The cartoon below explains the process. Credit to BlindJaw for the illustration!

How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Sex

The only activities that would require a full colon cleaning would be heavy fisting or very heavy strap-on play.

You are welcome to clean out at my incall, but the time you use to do so is counted as part of our date. If you’d like to incorporate enema play into our date, it’s an additional $150, and you’ll need to provide your own Fleet/enema bulb. Please mention this during booking.

Quite honestly, any of the experiences I offer can be tailored specifically to beginners! I really love showing folks the ropes when it comes to anal pleasure, so you can have any experience you’d like. 

I will mention that those who have never ever had any type of anal experience may want to book a longer session. Ninety minute sessions are great for new folks, and that gives your body time to calm down, relax, and truly enjoy yourself. 

Perhaps you’re not specifically looking for anal play and are more interested in a GFE escort experience? If that’s you, please see erinblackchicago.com.

Anal pleasure and sensual domination/body worship are truly my forte. There’s a more extensive list in the “about” section of the site, though.

If you’re looking to spend more than 2 hours with me, or are looking for an experience that’s broader, please see erinblackchicago.com

Absolutely! I love teaching folks how to participate in kink/bdsm experiences in safer, more pleasurable ways. 

I can also teach you specific skills, as well! Want to learn how to give a prostate massage? How to use a strap-on? Want to give someone an earth-shattering orgasm? I got you, and I’d love to teach you how.

No. You can expect me to wear sexy lingerie that I can comfortably move around in. I always session barefoot, and the only exception I make to that is for combat boots or other types of boots that have no heel.

Absolutely! I love when folks share their favorite things with me. 

Deposits are mandatory and I require a 50% deposit to secure our date.

Cash is king, but deposits are required and I accept those via Cashapp, Venmo, or Zelle.

If you’re coming to my incall, please place my fee on the table when you first come in. I don’t care if it’s in an envelope or not, but please if you choose to use an envelope, make sure it’s unmarked. 

If I’m coming to you, please leave it in a conspicuous place that’s easy for me to find.

Payment is taken care of before we get started.

Please keep in mind that I don’t discuss my rate unless you’d like to extend your time.

I love to play with all sorts of people! Men, women, couples, gender non-conforming folks, trans folks, and everyone in between. I do not discriminate based on age, identity, ethnicity, or ability. If you do require accommodations for a disability, please do let me know ahead of time so we can talk about it. I like to make sure folks are as comfortable as possible. 

Please be aware that my incall is located in a non-elevator building, and you’re required to climb one flight of stairs. If you require more accessible accommodations, please let me know and we can arrange another location together.

I have a private incall space that’s domestic in nature and very well-equipped, and it’s located in the Ravenswood/Lincoln Square neighborhood of Chicago. Parking is free and plentiful, and the building is very discreet.

I also offer outcall! I’m available all over the Chicagoland area as long as my transportation is provided for. Outcalls to The Loop, River North, and most Chicago neighborhoods are no additional cost.

If you’re looking to see me in the northeastern or northwestern suburbs, there is an additional incall fee that’s dependent on travel. Anticipate $100-$150 on top of my stated rate. I don’t provide incall in the suburbs, ever.

When on tour, I host from either private apartments/dwellings, or upscale hotels. I don’t host in commercial dungeons.

My time is in very high demand, and I release specific dates for each month approximately 2 weeks ahead of time.

I take 4 dates per month. Once those dates are spoken for, my month is closed.

If you’d like to see me in May, for instance, my May dates are released via newsletter the 2nd week of April. The dates are then posted on my contact page and front page pop-up.

You’re more than welcome to schedule more than a month in advance if you’d like- you can normally have your pick of date with that much notice!

I absolutely do not take same-day dates, even if we’ve met before.

I’m a 5’10” blue-eyed, blonde-haired, heavily tattooed Amazonian woman. I’m very strong.

US size 14/16, 38K/40J bra size. Size 10.5/11 in shoes, depending on brand. 

You certainly can!

I love gift cards to my favorite local places, like Flutter Lash, Merz Apothocary, La Colombe Coffee, and the like. If you’d like to sponsor my yoga, personal training, personal grooming, or cycling, let me know!

I love scotch aged in sherry barrels, reposado tequila, 18-year Calvados, and wine. 

I have a particular love for Rombauer Chardonnay, Kabinett Rieslings, Rosé Champagne, Domaine Carneros sparkling wine, Burgundy, Bordeaux blends (St. Emilion is a fave for red, Graves for white), and Rosé from Tavel in the summer months.

Chocolate is great, but I prefer it dark and encompassing either toffee or espresso beans. Wanna get me candy? Sour gummies win me every time.

Amazon/Sephora/Vanilla Visa gift cards are always welcome, too. So is tipping, but it’s not ever required.

I do.

Cancellations of any kind require full payment for the session. When I book our session, I deny someone else the opportunity to see me. It doesn’t matter how far in advance you cancel-should you need to cancel after I have your deposit, you’ll be required to pay the full amount of the session.

I accept one reschedule, and the reschedule must happen within the same month of the original date booked. I release my dates in advance, and I expect you to be able to make any date that you book with me.

If you have to reschedule more than once, you’ll be required to pay another 50% deposit and your original deposit is forfeited. When I book dates, I fully arrange my schedule around our date and dedicate that day and time to you specifically. I cannot and will not just simply book another date to replace you.