So, you’ve heard about the magic and majesty that is the P-Spot. You’ve wondered if the pleasures are truly as legendary as professed by those who ascribe to the prostate’s wonders. Ready to meet a Chicago Chicago prostate massage expert?
Maybe you’ve tried on your own only to be left thinking “What the hell was that about? It really didn’t feel that great and all I really ended up with was a sore arm.”
If you’re really interested in exploring both the pleasure and health benefits of prostate massage, you’ve come to the right place.
Using both my hands and toys, we’ll explore the sensations of both external and internal prostate massage and pleasure.
You mean aside from feeling amazing? There are actually tons of health benefits that come along with regular prostate massage. Granted, the medical community hasn’t fully gotten behind it, and the research has been limited to small sample studies, in most cases.
However, there is anecdotal evidence that prostate massage can help people experiencing the following issues:
Please note though that I am NOT a medical professional, and you should discuss any issues that cause you pain or discomfort with your medical care provider.
There are lots of sexual health benefits to prostate massage as well, but the two main ones are:
Honestly, I can’t tell you from first-hand experience since I don’t have a prostate.
However, I always ask my clients what it feels like, and most of them tell me it’s an intense sensation and often feels like an extremely pleasurable pressure that starts internally and spreads throughout their entire body. Folks who are new to prostate stimulation might take some time to adjust to the new feeling.
Some folks can feel their prostatic fluid (the fluid produced by the prostate) move up and out of their bodies, and they liken the sensation to ejaculating without orgasm.
Now, what I see in my sessions based on my client’s reactions? Prostate massage has produced some of the most pleasurable, long-lasting, and intense orgasms most of my clients have ever encountered.
That in and of itself is reason enough to try, right?
They shouldn’t be. If you are experiencing intense pain or discomfort, you should stop the experience no matter who’s performing the prostate massage. If you decide to see me for a prostate massage, I check in with your comfort level quite frequently and make adjustments to my technique based on your feedback.
Intense pain and discomfort could indicate a prostate infection or enlarged prostate. You should consult your healthcare provider for a diagnosis.
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Honestly, it depends. Some people are incredibly hard during prostate massage, and others never get erect at all. There’s nothing wrong with either of these scenarios.
In fact, if you’ve had prostate cancer or have erectile dysfunction, there’s nothing to worry about. Prostate massage doesn’t revolve around having an erect penis; it’s about your prostate.
You absolutely can! However, it often takes quite some time in order for this to happen. Some of my clients experience prostate orgasm the first time they’re with me, but this is an exception and not the rule.
As I don’t have a prostate, I had to search for an analogy. I found this tidbit at Mr.Racy, and I think it’s a great explanation:
“The best way I can describe the difference is with this food analogy:
I’m a dude who loves meat. Yeah, I like my fruits and vegetables, but meat is where it’s at.
Sometimes a big fat juicy hamburger is what I crave. Load it up with cheese, bacon and Mayo and I’m a happy guy. Mmmmm, yum. Think of this as traditional orgasm.
Other times the only thing that will satisfy me is a juicy steak. Medium rare Filet Mignon is my personal favorite. There is absolutely nothing better than getting a tender slice and savoring every single morsel in my mouth before swallowing it. The filet is prostate orgasm.
Yes, the difference between the two is that significant.”
Also, you can have multiple prostate orgasms. The more you stimulate, the more you have. I have quite a few clients who experience multiple orgasms whenever we play, and it’s incredible to watch and be part of. Imagine having them yourself!
Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere BBW sensual dominatrix, mistress, and fetishist since 2011. Erin specializes in BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, body worship, and dominant, woman-led experiences.