Perhaps you’ve heard the term “sensual domination” thrown around before, but you’re really unsure as to what that entails. It can all be super confusing, and the last thing you want to do is offend someone by asking an inappropriate question.
For me, “sensual domination” is the softer side of BDSM. The side of BDSM where we explore different sensory input without the pain, light bondage without the uncomfortable predicaments. Body worship, queening, face-sitting, and other forms of sensual interaction are par for course with sensual domination as well, but the experience is truly based around your interests.
A sensual domination session is also a great way to explore if you’re totally new to BDSM and you’ve never seen a professional Dominatrix or Mistress before. My approach is one of a guide and teacher who’s responsive to your needs and desires. I want us both to have a great time together while you expand your horizons and learn about what turns you on!
My interests are vast and varied, and if you need a reminder about them, you can click the button below.
Each session is designed specifically to suit what you’re looking for, and no two sessions are the same!
I like to think of these kinds of experiences as introductory sessions to BDSM for those who are new, or as experiences that are more intimate and sensually driven. If you’re curious about BDSM but have no interest in pain, or want to experience something that’s more sensual or focused on body worship, this is the kind of experience you’re looking for.
While I do appreciate and encourage you to share your fantasies with me, I don’t care for prescriptive scenarios that leave me little room for creativity. Bring your fantasies to me,but let me add my own unique twist to them, if you will!
Other than that, sensual domination sessions are generally more personal, intimate, and generally involve little to no pain play.
You are indeed, and I will reiterate this once we get started. I encourage you to touch, squeeze, hug, and hold me; I really enjoy being touched.
Body worship, queening, and smothering sessions are particularly fabulous if you’re into touching and exploring.
Kissing moves you into a different category of experience. If you’d like to be intimate on that level, please see erinblackchicago.com
Generally speaking, you can have your cake and eat it, too. 😉 I do ask that when sending over your wants and desires that you keep the length of the session you want in mind, particularly if you’re new to anal play or kink in general. Warm up does take time, as does getting comfortable!
If you’re interested in combining multiple areas of play, I do recommend booking at least 90 minutes so we aren’t rushed.
I’m so glad you asked!
I wrote a blog post about preparing for an anal experience. If you’re intending on booking me for anything involving your ass, I recommend reading it. you can read it here.
Other than that, I ask that you either come freshly showered or shower at my location prior to us getting started. Toiletries, including mouthwash, are always available at my space.
Mental preparation is often just as important, and I ask that you come with an open mind and a willingness to play and experience something new.
Expecting our session to look like the porn you’ve been watching isn’t a realistic one to have, so please leave any of those expectations at the door.
Unless you specifically request otherwise, I certainly will be! This touching can include my hands, feet, lips, and mouth depending on the scene.
Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere BBW sensual dominatrix, mistress, and fetishist since 2011. Erin specializes in BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, body worship, and dominant, woman-led experiences.
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