Frequently Asked Questions

Chicago NYC Kinky Strap-on Escort

Take some time and check out this FAQ. It will help you plan seeing me, Chicago NYC kinky strap-on escort and fetishist, Erin Black.

I’ve been a professional for over 6 years, and when I first started, I started as a pro-domme. I found myself limited by protocol and the expectations of those seeking my services, so I decided to toss the label aside. 

I’m a hedonist at heart, and I truly love what I do. An experience with me is filled with fun, laughter, and pleasure, not titles and slave protocol. In fact, I really prefer you don’t call me “mistress,” “goddess,” or the like. Please, call me Erin.

A fetishist, strictly speaking, is someone who requires something decidedly non-sexual to become aroused. Fetishes that revolve around body parts (feet, legs, etc), materials (leather, latex), clothing (stockings, yoga pants etc), activities (pegging, bondage), shoes, lipstick, and basically anything you can imagine exist. Fetishes are also completely normal and make life a whole lot more interesting. For me, my fetishes revolve heavily around giving anal pleasure. I get really excited seeing the pleasure people experience from these particular activities. I love it so much, I decided to develop this site.

I’m a companion who’s focus is in one particular area— you should come find out why. 

So glad you asked! 

Each experience comes with it’s own set of rules, so please take that into consideration when making your selection.

Parameters are as follows:

Prostate Pleasure– this varies, but is ultimately sensual domination with prostate/anal play being a focus. Other elements that I love to include are light bondage, queening, body worship, and tease/denial. 

Sensual Strap-On– this experience is very much a “kinky girlfriend” experience, with you being my bend-over boyfriend. 

Anal Trainee– if you’ve ever played with a professional domme, this experience will feel familiar. Depending on our mutual interests and your experience level, I’ll be dressed in either latex or lingerie. I’ll be focused on you with my hands mainly, a majority of my efforts placed in getting you to relax and open up. 

Rates are discussed after you’ve been screened and verified. 

I delisted from TER in January of 2018, and have a no-review policy. If you’re interested in reading some of my reviews, I’m happy to send you one or two applicable screen shots.

The cartoon below explains the process. Credit to BlindJaw for the illustration!

How to Clean Your Ass Before Anal Sex

The only activities that would require a full colon cleaning would be heavy fisting or very heavy strap-on play.

You are welcome to clean out at my incall, but the time you use to do so is counted as part of our date. If you’d like to incorporate enema play into our date, it’s an additional $150, and you’ll need to provide your own Fleet/enema bulb. Please mention this during booking.

Quite honestly, any of the experiences I offer can be tailored specifically to beginners! I really love showing folks the ropes when it comes to anal pleasure, so you can have any experience you’d like. 

I will mention that those who have never ever had any type of anal experience may want to book a longer session. Ninety minute sessions are great for new folks, and that gives your body time to calm down, relax, and truly enjoy yourself. 

Perhaps you’re not specifically looking for anal play and are more interested in a GFE escort experience? If that’s you, please see erinblackchicago.com.

Anal pleasure is really the name of the game here. However, I do enjoy incorporating light bondage, some CBT, and and tease/denial into my playtime. If you’re interested in tease/denial, I suggest booking either a Prostate Pleasure or a Sensual Strap-On experience.

If you’re looking to spend more than 2 hours with me, or are looking for an experience that’s broader, please see erinblackchicago.com

Absolutely! I love when folks share their favorite things with me. 

I do love deposits, as they’re a way to state you’re serious about our time together, and I do reserve the right to ask for a deposit to guarantee your booking.

Cash is king. Other payment options are selectively available. 

If you’re coming to my incall, please place my fee on the table when you first come in. I don’t care if it’s in an envelope or not, but please if you choose to use an envelope, make sure it’s unmarked. 

If I’m coming to you, please leave it in a conspicuous place that’s easy for me to find.

Payment is taken care of before we get started.

Please keep in mind that I don’t discuss my rate unless you’d like to extend your time.

I love to play with all sorts of people! Men, women, couples, gender non-conforming folks, trans folks, and everyone in between. I do not discriminate based on age, identity, ethnicity, or ability. If you do require accommodations for a disability, please do let me know ahead of time so we can talk about it. I like to make sure folks are as comfortable as possible. 

Please be aware that my incall is located in a non-elevator building, and you’re required to climb one flight of stairs. If you require more accessible accommodations, please let me know and we can arrange another location together.https://erinblackchicago.com

I have a private incall space that’s domestic in nature and very well-equipped, and it’s located in the Ravenswood/Lincoln Square neighborhood of Chicago. Parking is free and plentiful, and the building is very discreet.

I also offer outcall! I’m available all over the Chicagoland area as long as my transportation is provided for. Outcalls to The Loop, River North, and most Chicago neighborhoods are no additional cost.

I take playdates between 11am-9pm Monday-Saturday, by appointment. If you’d like to see me outside of those hours, please add 20% to my rates.

Same-day dates are possible, but require ample notice and may require a deposit.

I’m a 5’10” blue-eyed, blonde-haired, heavily tattooed Amazonian woman. I’m very strong.

US size 14/16, 38G bra size. Size 10.5/11 in shoes, depending on brand. 

I love scotch aged in sherry barrels, reposado tequila, 18-year Calvados, and wine. 

I have a particular love for Rombauer Chardonnay, Kabinett Rieslings, Rosé Champagne, Domaine Carneros sparkling wine, Burgundy, Bordeaux blends (St. Emilion is a fave for red, Graves for white), and Rosé from Tavel in the summer months.

Chocolate is great, but I prefer it dark and encompassing either toffee or espresso beans. 

Amazon/Sephora/Vanilla Visa gift cards are always welcome, too. So is tipping, but it’s not ever required.

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If you’ve booked in advance

If you decide to cancel a date that you’ve deposited and confirmed on, you forfeit your deposit. If you don’t need to cancel but would like to reschedule, please do let me know so that we can move our schedules around without causing deposit loss.

Should you cancel indefinitely and want to rebook in the future, a whole new deposit will be required to hold the date. Deposits only roll over for immediate reschedules.

If I ever need to cancel, I will of course refund you in full. If I ever need to shuffle a confirmed date around due to a scheduling faux-pas on my end, I’m happy to add an additional 30 minutes to our date.

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