Kink 101

Intro to BDSM Chicago

Chicago Blonde BBW Companion Erin Black

Wanting to expand your sexual and sensual experience is honestly a noble path to take. Stepping outside of prescribed ideas regarding sex, sexuality, and sensuality opens up an entirely new world of sensations, attractions, loves, and desires! It’s an exciting adventure to embark on, but sometimes it’s more than a little bit nerve-racking and scary. 

Fetish, kink, and BDSM play is fraught with terminology, technique, and navigating parts of your mind, body, and spirit that you’re probably pretty unfamiliar with. Finding a teacher, mentor, and guide who’s comfortable leading you down a more debauched path certainly makes the whole endeavor a lot more comfortable!

I’ve been a kinkster for my whole adult life, and I’ve been professionally helping introduce others to the pleasure and joy of kink, fetish, and BDSM for almost a decade. Whether you’re looking to experience your first spanking, sensually discover sensory deprivation, or light bondage, or perhaps try being of service on for size, an Kink 101 is exactly what you’re looking for! When you’re ready to get together, simply fill out my booking form below and let me know what you’re interested in exploring.

A small caveat: I know that some of you have found my online content, and see that I’m into some really advanced things. I understand just how intimidating those videos and that persona can be. Believe me when I say that everyone has to start somewhere, and that my interests range far and wide. You DO NOT have to be an expert or a well-trained bottom/submissive for me to want to spend time with you, and that what you see in my online content is not indicative of the time we’ll spend together (except for the parts that look like a whole hell of a lot of fun)!

Have Questions about Intro to BDSM in Chicago? Learn more about Kink 101.

Kink 101 sessions are specifically tailored to be a space for you to learn about fetish, kink, and BDSM with me as your teacher and guide. This is a space and time for you to experience things at a slower pace, ask questions, and learn. You can learn about anything from how to take a good spanking, how to please a woman orally, domestic service, learning about crossdressing/exploring gender,  experiencing anal play for the first time, and more!

For Kink 101 sessions, I always recommend booking 90 minutes to 2 hours. This allows us to relax and get to know one another. This time also allows you to ask any questions you may have, discuss your experiences, and what you’re looking for out of our time together.

Absolutely not! You don’t have to experience anything you don’t want to experience. This is a space and time for you to learn and explore, but you still have free will. Kink, fetish, and BDSM is so much more than pain (though it can definitely be part of it), and if you don’t want to experience pain or discomfort, you certainly don’t have to.

I am bisexual and I love introducing women, trans folks, and gender non-conforming folks to kink, fetish, and BDSM! Don’t hesitate to reach out to book time with me.

If that’s something you’re wanting to experience, yes! I do include intimate touch. If you’re not comfortable with being touched in that way, please do let me know before we get started (or honestly at any point during our time together since consent is ongoing and evolves).

I do, indeed. I absolutely love submissive women, corporal punishment/impact play, more taboo role plays, cross-dressers, gender play, prostate/anal play, chastity, and more. I also have an affinity for helping couples who want to add BDSM, kink, or fetish dynamics into their partnership!

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Fine Print

On same-day bookings:

I generally do not entertain same-day requests from potential friends. If you’re hell-bent on seeing me same-day, please add 50% to my rate. It’s incredibly tough to screen, get deposits, and align schedules all in the same day.

If your schedule is unpredictable and you often don’t know your availability until day-of, you’re welcome to pre-screen with me. Drop me a line at [email protected] introducing yourself, along with your screening information; I’ll honor that for up to one month, giving us more than enough time to coordinate with one another.

On my incall location and outcall:

I host in the Lincoln Square neighborhood of Chicago. If you prefer incall at another location, there’s an additional $250 fee. Outcall fee to Downtown Chicago, Evanston, and most Chicago neighborhoods is $50. Outcall fee to O’Hare, Rosemont, and Oak Park is $100. Outcall fee to  Oakbrook, Schaumburg, and most other suburbs is $150.

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